Do you remember what it was about you that your spouse first loved?
Do you remember what you first loved about him?
It might be fun (and instructive and maybe necessary) to have a conversation about your perspectives and bring to mind the ways you can brush up on the qualities that brought you together in the first place.
And I would love to hear about your discoveries!
P.S. If you find that you are focusing on your struggles and difficulties as a couple, I’d challenge you to shift your mind to see all of the amazing things you have going for you! It will change the energy and let the love and admiration flow! If you haven’t already watched it, check out the video here on Lioness and watch A Tale of Two Brains and It’s Not About the Nail. Be ready to laugh at yourselves!