If you will aim to compliment, or balance your spouse as an opposite perspective on the same team, instead of feeling the need to compete with him, asserting that your perspective is the correct one, you and your family will win in a big way.
Except I’d challenge you to tune into how many times there is a difficulty because you are feeling in competition with each other. And then use the idea of being complimentary as a way to shift your minds and find the win/wins that abound! Not my way or your way, but our way.
Love to you!