A few declarations to consider adding to your list:

I am divinely led.
I am right where I need to be in my life’s journey.
It is safe to be me!
I am loved and valued.
I am creating the life I want.
I am setting clear boundaries, kindly, gently, respectfully and firmly.
I move quickly beyond frustration and work to clarify my boundaries.
I like myself, I love myself!

Plug these the truths, and those you have identified, into your circuits like your life depended on it.  Arm yourself with strength and faith.  Model self-compassion to your children.  Then step back and see what you are becoming…

Wow!  Can you see it? What a vision!

All my love to you today,

Jacque

This song is a beautiful declaration! “David declares, the Lord is my shepherd.” (Psalm 23)

I put these words in the front of my school binder, when I was in a very challenging period of parenting, and slowly working on my degree.  It sustained me many times.  I hope it will bless you too.

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