Just a reminder on this summer day:
Yes, you can (and should!) correct your children’s behavior.
Remember the validation checklist though as you prepare to make yourself and your boundaries clear. Is what you need to say and how you will say it, kind? Gentle? Respectful? And firm?
When you have those four elements, not just one or two, but all four, you’re good to go.
Kids need boundaries and thrive on knowing where those boundaries are. It feels safe and makes life more predictable.
I hope you will feel success in your efforts today!
Love,
P.S. If you aren’t using the four validating words with yourself, chances are you won’t be able to employ them well with your family. Be kind, gentle, respectful and firm in your own head, about yourself. Model boundaries in this way and watch your kids respond to you more positively. You’re doing great!