Your Alpha

Remember the song from Alice In Wonderland that says, “I give myself such very good advice, but I very seldom follow it”? It makes me smile because I have sung it under my breath on a few occasions when I realized that I’d earned a consequence I...

A Case for Clarity

I heard someone say that thinking in terms of do’s and don’t’s is negative. Mmmm. I wholeheartedly disagree. What a gift parameters are! What a gift the word “no” can be! My child is playing outside, we live by a street where cars go by,...

Love You

Let’s get right to the heart of it: loving you is important. In fact it’s so important that accepting and loving others is nigh on impossible to do without love and acceptance of self. Remember when you have had moments of feeling enough; of feeling loved;...

Whose Is It?

Learning to know where we end and where our children begin is of utmost importance. What problems/challenges/desires/opportunities belong to us? Which problems/challenges/desires/opportunities belong to them? Our children need us to get this right. They need to learn...