Boundaries Baby

I have lately observed kids whose parents are victimized by them; worried that their child is mad at them, anxious that the child is uncomfortable or taxed in some way, and excusing bad behavior on account of it.  And I have seen those children crippled by their own...

Eye Training

Because our brains must be extremely selective about what stimuli will receive our attention, there is a great opportunity for us to learn to ask our brains to tune into the good we want to see. There is no possible way that we can attend to the millions of bits of...

In Thy Love Abiding

When we understand who we are in relation to God, that he is our Father and we are His daughters, we instinctively reach out to Him in in our need, in our joy!

Lavender Blue

Do you want to create beautiful spaces that ring with order? Of course we all understand, or at least are trying to understand, that order is coming and going every moment of every day. And surely, there is a large difference between chaos that is deep and wide and...

Beguiled

She had to sort through The pieces of half truths to Gauge the outcome of creation and Weigh the cost of inaction and Accept the bitter price to Offer the sweet gift of Mortalness--and she did. Which is why we revere The Mother of All Living.    ...

It’s Actionable Now!

Thank you for taking this little ride with me as I've done my best to convey these thoughts without dragging on too long! I hope that something in this series has been meaningful to you and encouraging as well. If you're in the middle of needing big change, like I...

The Need to Medicate

  Onto the third part of this conversation.  Thus far we have looked at Christian principles regarding emotions and a quick view of the work of Dr. Sarno who taught about the connection between emotions and chronic pain.  Of course there is much more to say on...

What Does Your Back Say?

In the context of what I am learning about emotions and our health, today I'll address the issue of psycho-physiological pain. I was introduced to the work of Dr. John Sarno about two months ago. Let me see if I can nutshell his basic ideas in case you haven't heard...

“Slow To Anger Is Better Than The Mighty”

Today is one of those days that I have so much to say that I don't know where to begin, and I wonder what kind of time it will take to make a stab at verbalizing all that is going on in my head! Maybe a good starting point is the word, anger. And a question: what...

Thank Heaven For Melody Beattie

Part of my study today led me again to Codependent No More, a marvelous tool written by Melody Beattie. I really did give thanks for her and her work today! So here's a stellar quote: (It's part of Step 6 if you're interested to know.) "I used to work so hard at...