Sisters, I hope this finds you well.

I am aware of the many challenges you are facing.

I hear some of the growing aches and pains you are experiencing in your marriages and families .

Some of you may be feeling despondent, hopeless and wondering why you should try anymore.

While some of you may be fighting mad, feeling betrayed, jolted or ready to bolt!

No matter where you are or how steep the climb is today, here is one thing I know from experience:

We don’t have time to focus on the mistakes or indiscretions of others.

And if we try to create change by focusing on what our spouses have done or what craziness our children are making or the instability we find in the world at large, we will only muddy the water and create greater misery, even hell for ourselves and everyone around us! 

Our health, our financial situation, our children’s growth, our homes, our education, our spiritual well-being and our entire futures hinge on our desire and ability to narrow our focus and go to work on those things over which we actually have power.

You and I are accountable for our own:

1 Attitude

2 Anger/Irritation

3 Behavior

4 Goals and desires

The only way forward is taking responsibility for ourselves.

So let’s get going!

Love,